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Old 05-25-2006, 03:24 PM   #22 (permalink)
mali
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Originally Posted by deuce
Swallowing your pride to make someone feel better (even more so when that someone won't be here for that much longer) is usually a worthwhile trade-off.
I try to get my dad to come over to see my son all the time, even though I can't stand him. My son adores his grandpa, and no matter how i feel about him, i wouldn't stand in the way of that. But he won't come over if it somehow interferes with his lame ass schedule. i.e. nights his girlfriend cooks dinner.. he won't just tell her "I won't be home, i'm going to see my grandson". And the last time i went over to his place, it was nothing but the same old shit. No fucked up shit happened, like molestation etc.. Not because of a single incident, but just based on how my dad's personality is and how he treats me.
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