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Originally Posted by CuriousKlepto
I’m very new to dating and I need to know. When should I tell a guy that I’ve never done anything with another guy before? On my very first date the guy totally freaked out cause I told him the total truth when he asked what kind of other guys I had dated. He got really weird when I told him he was the first gay guy I had ever met, and never called me back. What should say next time? And I just wanna be clear, He asked the question, It’s not like he said "You Thirsty?" and I screamed out "I’M A VIRGIN!" He wanted something and I just said how I didn’t think he was going to get it, from me, that night.
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The bold part is probably your biggest mistake. I mean, it's good to be honest, but you weren't even up for trying it with him?
Next time you should still be honest, but don't make it sound like you're not going to put out at all, especially at the beginning/in the middle of the date. If things go further than you want them to by all means stop it, but don't' give the impression you're not interested at the get-go.
Other than that, I'm not sure what to tell you.