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Originally Posted by marina
I think there is a tendency for some dudes to be all about sex, especially in the gay scene where healthy sexual and emotional relationships between men aren't fostered in the general society. Some dudes are just jerks, he probably should have been on craigslist or manhunt if he just wanted to trick.
My personal advice, as a heterosewxual woman who obviously can relate to you on only so many levels: Fuck dating. If you're just coming out, you're probably just getting comfortable with yourself, if you want more than just a sexual relationship right now or you are uncomfortable with a sexual relationship, you should just do you (pun intended) for awhile. Find positive friendships with other gay men, learn from them, get confident in yourself and the other stuff will come.
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That's one of my bigger problems. There isn't really big gay scene where I live so I have to look for gay guy friends online, most of which only want what I'm not ready to give up.