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I agree with everyone else. It sounds like the problem is just inexperience (which is universal) and not that you're gay. I'm bi and the first girl I dated was apprehensive because she thought that I was just a straight girl pretending and that I would break her heart. But I was honest with her about her being my first girlfriend and we ended up being together for awhile. I think that honesty is your best bet, and make sure that the guys you're dating know that you're inexperienced and not just experimenting. This may apply more to women than men, but the gays that are out tend to get hurt by straight people that are just fucking around and when things get serious they run away and go back to being straight, leaving the gay high and dry.
You're ok, you're only 20. Live it up, you'll figure it out.
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