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Originally Posted by notedhero
Now, to play devil's advocate, there's nothing wrong with his wanting to be physical, and that doesn't mean he was this horny guy. It might be that he just didn't want to be in a relationship with someone who is just discovering himself. He could have wanted something a little more stable. There are a lot of hang-ups a 20 y/o can have with his sexuality, and if he isn't comfortable with the idea of even being physical (i don't know if he had his hand's down your pants or was just looking for a kiss) he was probably just reconciling that this wasn't what he wanted.
I think in the future you should be open about this being a bunch of firsts for you and that you're more comfortable with taking things slowly. Maybe find someone either closer in age, or situation so that you feel comfortable with being on the same wavelength.
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You're right. The more this thread goes on, the more I realize how stupid I was. We started kissing on his bed and as he was sliding his hand up my leg from my knee, I just started freaking out. Then I told him I was a virgin, then he freaked out. I've never met a gay guy before so with eveything happening I sorta just let things get carried away. I do want to be with guys, I just can't seem to find one that's willing to take it slow.