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Originally Posted by iheartnihilism
You sound like my mom. sigh, memories.
I just wanted to add in that Kenneth Cole Black is a good fucking choice. The bf wears that every once in a while and i'm all over him when he does.
Unlike Chemda, I see some truth in the whole "wear what her dad wears/wore" to an extent. My brother (who is 14 years older and the only male figure in my life growing up) wore Old Spice when we were growing up and i still equate that smell with fond memories. I tell anyone who wears it that that's what a real man smells like.  (And no, he never touched me in my vajayjay.) |
Thank you, I love my Kenneth Cole Black. Every time I put it on I'm always invigorated by how great it smells.
The point of the "wear what her father wears" is merely to evoke emotion and then tie it to yourself. Smell is the most powerful of all senses in respect to memory. It will not work well if the girl has a bad relationship with her father(i.e. won't work on strippers, hookers and pornstars).
Most of the PUA material is centered around evoking strong emotions in the girl and then tying them to yourself. In ep 853 with Jesse Joyce he recited a piece of canned material in The Layguide about how you are to discuss a dream vacation with the girl. The point of that was to make her feel good, have her retreat to her "happy place" and at the end of it she will invariably make the connection that you made her feel good. Of course she made herself feel that way, but the guy led her to make herself do it and therefore the guy is more valuable in her eyes. This is what I mean by manipulation is not the proper word for all of this. It's more like forcing a connection (assuming the girl is receptive to it.)
There's another gambit I can recall. Whenever you have already engaged a girl in conversation for a decent amount of time, ask her what her dream boyfriend would be like. Ask her to be specific, constantly fishing for details. By the end of it, it does not matter if you are the complete opposite of everything she just said, she has just divulged some personal information to you which has built rapport, and she is now turned on. If I recall correctly the proper way to finish this is by swooping in for a kiss.