I think religious/lifestyle should be an option. That is what did me and my Highschool sweatheart (5 year relationship) in.
She was an innocent psuedo Christian (not pyscho crazy believer, but the "its my family tradition" believer) who dreamt of being a teacher and having children. I was an atheist who dreampt of visectomy`s, crazy adventures around the world, and creating art.
Im not really sure where my vote should go
Lesson learned, and were both pursuing our dreams with no hard feelings (and very little to none comunication)