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Originally Posted by The Living Dead
I think my favorite part about being submissive is getting tied up. I absolutely love bondage.
The reason my boyfriend is uncomfortable being extremely dominant is because he really thinks he will end up hurting me and my feelings.
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Part of being a dom is knowing the sub well enough that there's no risk they will end up doing it in a messy way. Safety Words are there too, but the best thing is being into each other enough and knowing each other welll enough that you know your partner turnons, turnoffs and limits.
Also, if someone isnt into being a dom, they'll never kearn, it's just not for them.
I like bondage too, personally, but the one time i did it with the wrong person that wasnt into it and just forced herself in it, it was uncomfortable and awkward.
Talk about it a lot, baby step through it and if it just doesnt go, find something else. Patience, practice and chemistry.