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Originally Posted by DudeEMETIB
Also after some of the things you write you see to make an excuse or apologize for....I mean you say "blogging...sad I know" or "...that was a bad idea"
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TRUTH!! Nothing turns a person off more than shame and insecurity. Also, when people start preaching the word "confidence" in context of dating, always respect the very thin line between confidence and cocky/arrogant/duesch bag.
Own it, and fuck the haters.
*Side note* alot of people may struggle in a similar fashion with their sexual kinks. The difference between saying "Ummmmm I kind of like this creepy odd thing and I just wondered maybe you might want to try it or something" compared to saying "This is what I like, lets give it a try and see what happens". (maybe not a first date discussion, but still relevant for down the road consideration)