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Originally Posted by stulagu
I'm not sexually attracted to women in the least. I find the curves and softness of a woman beautiful, just like I find a man with a broad muscular back artistically appealing. It doesn't mean when I see a boob I want to lick it. It doesn't mean that when I see a beautiful woman I start thinking about sex. I don't see any man and want to start having sex right then and there, it is many MANY aspects of a man that makes me sexually attracted to him. Not just that he is a man and has a penis.
I really think your whole argument is conviluded in your fear of being considered just 1% gay. And really, what the hell is that anyway?
Why can't a guy see a hard penis and go "oh, a hard penis...I like when my penis gets hard, good things tend to happen" and then they're thinking of their hard penis and then their penis is hard. Does that mean the guy just turned gay?
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What fear? How could I possibly have any fear of it? Also, that last paragraph: yes, that's pretty gay.
I'm not saying you're sexually attracted to women, but you can see something appealing to them. You must if you like
watching them in sexual situations. Am I the only person that watches porn because I think the shit in it is sexually appealing? Apparently everybody's porn has less to do with their sexuality than their opinion of sandwiches.
It's really odd how people's insecurities are determined to flip this back on me. If I was the least bit attracted to dudes I'd be super open with it. I've tried reading gay porn just to see if it does anything for me. I've tried to watch straight porn just to see if I like it. But when I come back and report the results that I fucking lose my hard on whenever a dude is involved, people get all kinds of defensive and suspicious.
This really is some shenanigans if we refuse to have a word that describes a sexual unattraction to males, we're suspicious of anyone who doesn't want dick in their porn, and we maintain that porn has nothing to do with sexual desires. All of these contentions make
absolutely no sense. And my whole point here is that when people start doing acrobatics like that to force the interpretation of facts to fit a conclusion, somebody's trying to avoid something.