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Originally Posted by Cretaceous Bob

Imagination adds, it doesn't take things out.

Wrong, it does lots of things.

Originally Posted by Cretaceous Bob

You're doing a weird sort of gymnastics here where you're trying to group my porn in with yours, and you do so by heavily contorting the wording of my post.

I'm going off the fact that, I believe you said, you only watch girl/girl porn, so in that case you have to be the watcher, third-person. If your fantasies involve you getting involved, all very good, but then that would make it a first-person experience, hence my statement. Not really sure what gymnastics you're talking about.

Originally Posted by Cretaceous Bob

I said quite clearly that people's fantasies do not involve a third person view of themselves, and that is not something that is either in my fantasies nor my porn.

How are you telling people what their fantasies are?

Originally Posted by Cretaceous Bob

And how immensely bizarre is it that a straight male can't understand someone who doesn't want penis in his porn? It seems like this whole country has an immensely contradictory definition of heterosexuality. If I like penis, I'm gay. But if I don't like penis, I'm weird. There's some serious issues there. Evidently the secret nobody says is that "heterosexual" means "likes to look at men but doesn't do anything with them".

Never said I didn't understand why you don't want it there, just putting forward a basis for the contradictory stance, that it's ok if it is there. You're jumping to conclusions about people who are ok with a dick being around that's not theirs, ever been in a locker room? Were you crazy uncomfortable? Were you sure all the other "heteros" were checking you out?

Originally Posted by Cretaceous Bob

You really have trouble reading.

That one I admit I mis-read. I believe you meant the part of my original post you took out only refuted one sentence of yours, when I thought you meant you only took out one sentence of my original post.

However, the part of my post you did take out stated that I don't need dick in my porn, when your going on about how if guys are ok with a dick in their porn, they must be obsessing over it. No gray area with you.

Originally Posted by Cretaceous Bob

That is what is known as a lie.

Dodge.

Distortion of context.

Now you're just blatantly trolling.

Originally Posted by Cretaceous Bob

My assertion is that you are more fond of penises than me, and I don't think there's anything inaccurate about that whatsoever.

I'm going to have to echo Doug on this one. If enjoying watching a guy fuck a girl makes me gay, sign me up.

Originally Posted by Cretaceous Bob

"Gray area" is precisely what I'm talking about. Gray is a midpoint on a spectrum between black and white. Sexuality is generally defined by attraction to genders, and generally the extremes of that spectrum involve preferring one gender to the point of completely excluding the other. You are not an extreme, you are a gray area. This is what I'm saying.

Now we have some gray area, and I'm fine with being in that gray area if you have to make a destinction, but you have to be to one side or the other, which I also fine with, but I'm not fine with you using something as silly as what porn one tends to watch to assign other people a place within said gray area.