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Old 10-31-2010, 10:43 PM   #49 (permalink)
doug
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Originally Posted by awesomesauce View Post
I guess this is more my problem. I have learned to tell when I am annoying someone, but sometimes push past their being annoyed because I don't care. I only really get angry when I am already overwhelmed and about to get angry. I also get called a "bitch" a lot because I am quiet and in an authority position (I am a manager).
Best piece of advice I can give is to learn to shut up and hear other people out.

You're getting angry and you don't care that people are annoyed because you're not invested in what they have to say. It's talking at vs talking to and you have to care what the other person has to say and be willing to take the time to digest and respond to it thoughtfully.
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