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Write it out!
Write her a letter that you know you'll never send. Tell her off completely. Don't hold back. Then throw it out.
Wait a couple days and try to write a letter that you WOULD SEND her.
Don't send it
Wait a couple of days a write a new one. This one will be more calm. Try to keep your language about how YOU felt and not about what SHE did or does.
For example: I felt like I was losing a friend
Instead of: you were so mean
People don't respond well to accusations.
Wait a couple days after writing the last letter and see if you like it then
It's so devastating to fight with family. It can be life altering. Take a breath. Keep perspective.
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