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Originally Posted by jacey.ATX

Some questions to consider:

-Can two lesbians have sex? Can they have sex without some kind of device? If oral sex and digital penetration are not sex, then they can't.

-I have a friend, Amy, who has had many sex partners, but she has never been with a man, and she's never used a sex device (i.e., dildo/vibrator/strap-on) with another person. Is she a virgin?

-How about my friend, James, who is gay, but doesn't like to do anal sex. If oral sex isn't sex, then is he abstinent?


To think that, to be certified as "real sex," an act must involve insertion of a penis into a vagina or an anus, is sort of a sexist, heterosexist way of thinking. In my opinion, if the goal of the act is orgasm, then the act can be considered sex. So the answer to the question is yes, oral sex is sex.

I whole-heartedly agree with this opinion, but in the interest of keeping my number down, I'm gonna go with no.