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Originally Posted by Junkenstein
i think that if your marriage works, then your happy.
my main problem with marriage is that the costs of failure are so huge that lots of people force stay together even if they're unhappy.
divorce is not that simple and a frustrating marriage is horror. id marry, of course, if it seems right. but as much as id love to enlieve that eternal love exists, i havent seen it yet.
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this.
Even though I am married to my 2nd husband and things are not so good right now and who knows where it will end up eventually - I still believe in love.
I believe forever love is very possible - -you just have to nurture it forever too. I was going to say 'work' on it but that makes it seem like a job you dont want to do.
I say now that if I ever found myself to be single again, I would never get married again and never live with someone else either. That doesnt mean that I dont want to be madly in love, I just need my own space. I dont want to muck something up with regular old life like shared bills and shared
bathrooms.
Best of Luck to Jessie -- I love the Sunset Beach photo -- one of the most beautiful places in NJ.