on the poll: never been friends with ex's, its just not in my personality. i cant even have a conversation with any of my ex girlfriends. i tried the "stay friends" thing and it always ended up bad or worse. to me the argument that people who keep in touch withe their ex's use in favour ("we shared good things and liked each other") is one of the reasons for not doin it. if we broke up, it means that there was a rupture, and the sharing usually gives me a baggage that would make the firendship forced awkward and unnatural.
and on a lower level, i just end up hating the guts of all my ex's. i turn fromn love to hate quickly. whatever, i'm immature, suck my dick.
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