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Old 10-14-2011, 09:00 AM   #23 (permalink)
Cretaceous Bob
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Rococo
I don't think it can be that hard to figure out. If he isn't dating anyone else and never has since you guys have been "friends", he's into you.
Keep in mind that he could have dated someone else but still been totally into Rococo.
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If you're friends can plainly see the attraction he has for you, he's into you.
Yup.
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You, know he likes you and you love the attention. You are leading him on and like the idea of a guy secretly crushing on you. You like having a wing man, you like a guy complimenting you regularly without any strings....

It's not fair on this dude my dear. Let him go find some pussy and back off. Go out with your ladies, meet a few hardcore assholes and learn to appreciate this "friend" who is perfect for you but you are too caught up in yourself to treat him with the same love.
I strongly disagree with the implications of fault on the part of Rococo. This guy is responsible for every bit of hurt indulging his fantasies causes.

My opinion is that this guy is hurting/deluding himself and is in for a great deal more hurt unless Rococo really puts the brakes on even being close friends with him. Infatuations don't dissipate without distance.
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