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You could definitely be right, Campy, but this has solid denial/beard possibility. He might not even realize it himself. Staying on your couch, comfy or no, has strong avoidance vibes to me. He's avoiding his life, avoiding his sexuality, avoiding sobriety (which generally ties into one or more of the others), or, yes, maybe avoiding the reality that he won't be getting with you. Not for nothing, but what he's avoiding ain't necessarily involved with his relationship with you. But no matter what he's ducking, if you two are that close, have the conversation. It'll be weird and awkward and you might not talk for a little while afterward, but talking it out will strengthen the relationship in the long run if the relationship is strengthenable.
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