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Old 10-14-2011, 09:09 AM   #26 (permalink)
Cretaceous Bob
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Originally Posted by Tony Spectacular View Post
You could definitely be right, Campy, but this has solid denial/beard possibility. He might not even realize it himself. Staying on your couch, comfy or no, has strong avoidance vibes to me. He's avoiding his life, avoiding his sexuality, avoiding sobriety (which generally ties into one or more of the others), or, yes, maybe avoiding the reality that he won't be getting with you. Not for nothing, but what he's avoiding ain't necessarily involved with his relationship with you. But no matter what he's ducking, if you two are that close, have the conversation. It'll be weird and awkward and you might not talk for a little while afterward, but talking it out will strengthen the relationship in the long run if the relationship is strengthenable.
Um, I didn't read any of that into it, and I think you might be assuming somethings or contextualizing things to a degree that I don't know is accurate.

You're providing other reasonings for being around Rococo other than that he is "in love", but I don't see a reason to do that. Getting "gay" out of a pretty common instance of dude being a fucking lameass bitch over a girl really seems off to me.
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