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I don't think it can be that hard to figure out. If he isn't dating anyone else and never has since you guys have been "friends", he's into you.
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He's dated other people.
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If you're friends can plainly see the attraction he has for you, he's into you.
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Maybe they just don't understand how women and men can be friends.
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If you are always the one to start a conversation like "I am totally into that guy in my psych class..." and his response is to quickly bring up some random girl he likes in his Lit. class but you have never seen this girl and you can clearly hear the defeat in his voice...he's into you.
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I've met the girls he's dated. I've given him relationship advice. I've helped him get laid.
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If he prefers to hang with you then go cruising for girls with his buddy's he thinks he has a shot.
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Maybe I'm just cooler than his "buddy's"
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If he's crashing on your lumpy couch rather then going home to his comfy bed he thinks he has a shot.
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He lives in a dorm with a stinky guy. We live in a house and our couch is awesome.
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If he has ingratiated himself with your roomies and they all love him, he thinks he has a shot.
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Maybe he's just a charming guy.
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You, know he likes you and you love the attention.
You are leading him on and like the idea of a guy secretly crushing on you.
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Well, that's rather presumptuous, don't you think?
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You like having a wing man
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Who doesn't? That's (among other things) what friends are for.
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you like a guy complimenting you regularly without any strings....
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He's a gentleman and he's very supportive of me. I like that about him. I feel good about myself when he's around, and yes he tells me I'm pretty and smart. Something wrong with that?
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It's not fair on this dude my dear. Let him go find some pussy and back off.
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Trust me, I'm not keeping him from getting laid. And back off? How does one back off from one's best friend?
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Go out with your ladies,
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I do.
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meet a few hardcore assholes
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Why would you wish that on me? Sadistic.
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and learn to appreciate this "friend" who is perfect for you but you are too caught up in yourself to treat him with the same love.
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Wow. Just wow. Thanks for the brilliant advice. I'll refrain from writing what I think you should do, except that you should maybe look up the concept of "projection."
PS-- he's not gay. He had a girlfriend for 3 years in high school, he dates girls and has had a couple of short term girlfriends since we've been in college. Plus, we talk about sex and relationship stuff all the time. I'm an Advocate, we both listen to Savage Lovecast religiously, and we have several close gay friends. If he was into dudes, I'd know about it.