There's a difference between having different interests and not speaking to the other person or being interested in them or their life at all.
I don't always buy the "if you're worried about X than you should/shouldn't be worried" Just because you worry about something doesn't automatically incriminate or exonerate you. Take a spot check: do you like your significant other? Do you think that they are cool/fun/hot/awesome? Chances are, if you answered yes, you're making mountains out of mole hills.
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