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For our first child I didn't want to know if it was a boy or girl so it was a big surprise on the day (girl). My wife did want to know so the second time around we were going to find out. We did the exact same as Adam did; got the ultrasound lady to write it on a note then we went out to dinner that night and opened it just after we ordered so we could talk about it the rest of the night.

I liked both scenarios; the complete surprise is just that but also just opening the note and seeing Boy written was just as exciting and didn't "ruin" anything like I thought it might.