Normally I agree with most of Brolos advice as his heart is in the place of peace and love and goodness. However, with the friendzone thing, ah jeez. Please please do not keep trying after the person you are pursing has made it clear that they are not interested. It will likely only lead in heartbreak for you and the friendship will never truly be that. There are some friendships that have changed from that to romance but they are in the VAST minority. It is not worth tying up your heart for the teeny tiny possibility. After you have laid things on the line by asking them out romantically or whatever and they turn you down it is best to separate yourself from the friendship until you can actually be a friend to the person not just masquerading as one to get the guy/girl.
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