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Originally Posted by HeyAnne
I already had the porn on the computer talk with my sons, ages 14 and 17. I didn't ban them, I just told them that if their sister would be able to accidentally access it, they should make sure they delete all links and history.
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This is interesting. I think boys should be allowed to masturbate and not be shamed, but do you explain the negative effects of porn as well?
Nowadays, porn is a lot like weed. Back in the day, weed was mild and you got a little high. Now it is so potent you can experience psychosis and have a panic attack. Porn used to be a woman fucking a man. It was very mild and the woman had so much hair, you couldn't really see anything. Today, porn practically goes right up into the vuh-jay and doesn't stop until it hits uterus! Also, the gaping anal porn? OMG. That shit is vile.
I think when it comes to sexuality you want to be open but also maintain that 'parent' roll where you're warning them of the dangers. Masturbate, yes. You still gotta warn them that it affects how they view women, how they cope with stress, etc....right?