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Old 02-26-2014, 01:15 AM   #7 (permalink)
lovebird
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Originally Posted by Keith View Post
That's because white men are in power. That's not related to what I'm saying.

When it comes to regular people like ourselves, it seems to me that, in general, it's easier for a white person to admit they're gay to their friends than it does a black person. Compared to whites, it seems that black men pride themselves in being far more masculine. You've heard that eating pussy makes black men feel feminine, for example. They simply say it's gay instead of feminine, of course.

Even eating vagina is gay!

You're being defensive as if I'm blaming black men for homophobia. You know what I'm saying. Like we said, there's even a term for it: on the downlow. Us whites don't have a term for it.
Thanks for the reply! Oh my bad, I shouldn't have mentioned how homophobia is institutionalized by conservative whites in my argument. I should have focused on anecdotes about who eats pussy and who doesn't based on race. The ease of coming out has a lot to do with how liberal one's friends and family are. I still think its extremely difficult for those who want to come out to their friends and family in white conservative christian areas. Especially when laws against them are being supported by their own community. Also the white term for down low is just "in the closet".
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