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I was 20 years old, dating a 24 year old and we were messing around a little. I was still a virgin (I was upfront right away... no leading on). He pressured me a little, but he always stopped when I was ready to stop, and three and a half months into the relationship we "finally" had sex.
I waited because I wanted to really want the person, and I also wanted to know them. I waited, being mocked by my friends, and others, for a guy that I literally couldn't stand not fucking.
And I found it, we're still together :-)
I know someone else who had a one-night stand, and 6 years later they are married happily with a baby on the way.
Sex is a thing totally crucial in a relationship, but it's up to you to decide when to bring it in.
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