I relate so much to not telling people what I think of their actions right away. It takes times to process. Being in a relationship with someone who can come up with arguments and comebacks right away really takes a toll unless you both work together to speak about your issues during the same week they occurred. Chemda is right. It's not fair at all to tell someone, "why didn't you tell me sooner?" (unless it's months or years later, of course).
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