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Originally Posted by Mermaid
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Ahhhhhhh Mermaid :/ , Did my best to carve the post to get across what I thought without oversimplifying or being inflammatory. Reading back now I should've reiterated that I'm not saying don't take minute to hear the person with the first hand experience. I was trying to communicate that there's a difference telling Bob to shut up in the moment and to shut up forever.
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Originally Posted by Apia
And by not acting defensive in the moment you can enjoy it.
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Yeah, the gap in LetSayBob's letter is how he's coming across to his girlfriend in those arguments.