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Originally Posted by Lanfear
I know there are always two sides to a story and I hope you don't feel like you are painted as the sole blamed party in this.
Sending all the best wishes your way as well Cat, I didn't feel like it would have been appropriate for me to reach out to you but maybe that would have been the nice thing to do. Hugs!
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You're right, there's two sides, and just because it's KEITH and the girl and MNIK, doesn't mean Cat is a villain, even if we're only hearing Keith's perspective on this and of course having empathy towards what he is struggling with.
It's hard, I've been through a divorce and the narrative around our "why" painted me in a bad light if you only heard my ex's side. It's complex and there's two people with feelings ... you're right for us all to remember that.
"Just because I wanted this doesn't make it easy" is something that has stuck with me, fwiw.