[FingerLakes]

just to clarify; it didn't sound like you were trying to get her back or like you were being funny. It sounded like you got your feelings hurt and wanted to "win" the encounter so you were petty and insulted her. That's a VERY common attitude on these anonymous fuck apps.

Also outside of that, dating apps are the fucking WORST. OKC is especially perilous because it tricks you into thinking it's not a fuckapp but it one of the fuckiest apps out there. It gets you hooked into answering questions, a metric fuckton of them, and lowers your defenses, making you think you have some form of control over the outcomes. But people on that app have the worst combination of being flaky and judgemental, like the ones on more straight forward fuck apps, but also condescending because they think being on OCK makes them less desperate/lonely/horny than people on Tindr/Growlr/Scruff. It's just a fucking trap.