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Originally Posted by g001dfinger
I think dating apps get a lot of ghosted conversations because you have a bunch of people like Chemda out there wanting to be part of the flirting game, but then it gets too real with an actual meetup plan and they ghost.
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I don't think the majority of ghosters are Chemdas. In fact I'm pretty sure if Chemda was on Tinder and you called her out on "just wanting to be in the flirting game" she would actually have that conversation with you out of respect, and not ghost.
I think people are just shitty and incapable or unwilling to be confrontational in any way, so instead of saying "hey I don't think we're a match" they take the easier route of complete avoidance and then justify it by saying that "OMG WHATS THE BIG DEAL I DONT EVEN KNOW YOU!"