on topic: silicone lube. i don't know about y'alls pussy, but mine has some discriminating taste here. there are a couple of downsides--it's more expensive, you can't use it with silicone toys, and it takes a little soap and water post-clean up, BUT it doesn't tack up. ever. it's like if God were a woman and she bottled her glory squirt. need a recommendation?
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