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Hey Sparrow there’s a lot to this story. I don’t think I told it right/ and or/ yer missing my point.
I’m still cool with this person. There was an understanding that we were dating with an end goal of something serious. Possibly marriage. At no point was I given an indication that monogamous relationship wasn’t an end goal. Maybe. MAYBE she mentioned she was bi. I’ve dated bisexual women before. It’s never been a “well she’s gonna have a GF as well, cuz bi..”
IM NOT SHAMING or judging nor did I ‘punish’ this person for their polyamory. It was something only revealed at the end. It broke my heart. It still does. I wish I could go there. I can’t even hang with her because it’s too confusing.
You say don’t judge people for disclosing personal info. Well. That’s kinda what I’m doing here *eye roll* #hastag. Fml
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