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Old 07-02-2018, 03:46 PM   #16 (permalink)
Mermaid
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Originally Posted by Keith View Post
You're getting hung up on this word "dating." Is it really confusing you that much? Then use whatever word you like, but we have to move on a LITTLE bit.

"Why not call it fucking sometimes and hanging out sometimes and that doesn't mean they're the one just that..."

Cause saying "dating" is faster and that's what the dictionary says it means, so I go with that.

Now, with that reiterated, of course I've said that - that I'm only into hanging out and fucking.

How is this confusing? You have to be making up some stories.


Go by what I said, and believe me when I say that's what I said if you want to debate what I'm doing.

You're making this personal and not sharing the personal part.

There's no confusion or question about honesty if you're dating me and believing what I tell you about my feelings.

I think something like this happened to you, and you're not admitting that you were lying to yourself. That's the only thing that makes sense to me.
How did I make it personal?

I'm asking questions because I'm curious.

You mentioned that some of these ladies are starting to become jealous and make little comments about you dating other women.

Then you mentioned that you dont see a future with some of them.

If the jealous ones are the ones you dont see a future with then I was wondering why you'd continue to entertain them romantically.

What benefit is there to it?

The poll question is about honesty.

From the show it seemed like the honesty stopped at "I told you I'm dating other people".

It's hard for me to believe you've plainly told these women that you are not interested in growing a romantic relationship with them (you basically want a friends with benefits situation and they agreed) yet they continue to make little jabs about you dating other women. And if they are, I'm confused at why you'd continue interaction with them.


In summary:

I'd like to hear the ladies sides of the story.

Last edited by Mermaid; 07-02-2018 at 04:36 PM.
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