I mentioned the Quepasana in another show thread when you first mentioned you wanted to do a silent meditation retreat because to me those other ones always sounded like misery. I was in Maui in May and my friend had just done her Quepasana and it honestly sounded like a 10 days of camping in paradise so I was instantly sold. There's a waiting list but maybe check out it out...
https://www.quepasana.com/
also Rojo for guest host!