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Old 09-14-2018, 02:07 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Last week, the boundaries were pushed again and I decided I'd had enough. I told her it was over and I was leaving. The problem is... well, I guess about the same as every long term relationship. We've known each other for 21+ years: dated off and (mostly) on for about 10, and we've been married for over 10 now. I just don't know what life is like without her.

Good job! Don’t look back.

It is so scary to think of my life without Hennessy. But I’m doing it. I’m surprising myself. Realizing that it’s alright. I’m also actively reaching out to and creating more community around me so that I continue to have support. Include people in on how you feel. They will love you through it in various ways. If you were mistaken and you both were meant to be together then that will show itself in your clearer mind. Get your mind back first.



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