I'm the opposite of dirt ball. I can't leave the house without make up on. I think it was a couple episodes ago, when Chemda said she sometimes just gets out of bed and goes about her day with the same clothes on...I think I gasped out loud.
My bf is a dirt ball though. He spent years as touring punk rock musician. It took some getting used to but now I love him just as much as a normal.
So yes Chemda, you can date non-dirt balls. You just have to make up for it by being super charming and sexy...which you are.