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Originally Posted by Apia
Im sure it isnt. But I also think this is why Chemda stayed so long. I like Hennessy. But I am also less nice/ codependent than many women. I got healed from it after dating a psychopath in 2001. ( not comparing Hennessy with him) I noticed that if I try to understand too much and forgive too much I would break. My wantig to undertand and forgive ends if it starts damaging me.
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I don't think of codependence as a "womanly" thing = many people are codependent & it is rarely healthy.
Humans are balls of tissues & emotions bouncing around this world with no guide book to refer to when the mother board starts to fry.
You had your experience & adjusted your life in the way you felt compelled to. That is amazing!
I've had my share of experiences & I can relate to Chemda's state of mind right now. I've made a choice to be single after the last failed & fucked up relationship. Now I'm doing a lot emotional reconciliation about my relationship history so I can stop repeating some of my patterns.
Everyone has their own path...
Some of us bounce around a bit more than others....