i’m on reddit (bonus points if you find me) and watched this thread happen real time. so fun! i don’t think she was shaming him, and if she was even unintentionally, she was checking her own feelings. the subreddit was
r/AmITheAsshole maybe she could have gone to a different set of ears, but i think it was a healthy impulse.
she didn’t know it would blow up, but, the risk is always present. so, i hand down my judgment with the proper response: ESH (Everyone Sucks Here)