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AITA for telling him it's not ok to take out a second mortgage so he can get phalloplasty (enlargement surgery)? He scheduled a free consultation w/ a plastic surgeon, but told me it's probably going to cost at least 50K.
He says it's my fault and that my posts drove him to it. There's no way I'm co-signing anything. I think this is the last straw for him and I. I'm absolutely heartbroken that our relationship was just destroyed in a matter of two weeks. By a micropenis, nonetheless.
I've told him I don't need a $50K penis, and that we can manage to keep things spicy. But this stubborn man is bound and determined. I think he thinks this will save our relationship, but him being reckless with finances will ruin it instead.
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