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Old 02-03-2020, 09:32 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Sex agreements

Food for thought: “agreeing” to have sex every four days is contrary to consent culture. It contemplates being entitled to sex from a spouse. A better approach to discussing sex with a spouse is to agree to consensual safe sex and to agree to check ins where communication about sex is judgement-free. I agree with Chemda’s recommendation for the listener to seek out sex therapy. I don’t think a sex slump is incurable if there is counseling and commitment to work through whatever underlying medical/mental issues are contributing to the sexual incompatibility.
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