So I'd like to think I'm pretty healed and well-adjusted from being molested by 2 different family friends. All things considered, I'm ok. It doesn't even come up in therapy. My close friends know what's up too, one of them is a KATG listener so I braced her for "my comment was read on the show, about the thing."
And it's not like I make jokes about being molested or raped or anything, but I'm not always walking around hurt by it, if that makes sense. Anyways, the one day me and my girl friends were hanging out, drinking and chatting about kids, growing up, and the varying degrees of our parents strictness and watchfulness. It was along the lines of a friend saying "my mom never let me go anywhere and I was such a pussy for it" and someone else "my mom let me do what I want, she really should have kept a closer eye on me" and others chiming in how kids need to be able to have some freedom, you can't hover all the time, etc. Then I just deadpanned "my mom never knew where I was roaming around and I got molested" and then just cracked up laughing. No one else laughed.... oops.
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