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Old 08-19-2020, 03:25 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Apia resurrected View Post
When I did my list, I wasnít choosing between 12 men or so.
I did my list for myself, to learn better what was important to me and what was not.
I canít imagine even knowing several potential partners. Currently I know exactly 0 people who could be a partner for me if I wasnít with Mr. Apia.

Of course I donít go out several days a week and meet countless new people.
But still, I canít imagine knowing several people I would want to date and who are also available. Was every single woman he knows on that list?
To be fair, being in relationships, short and long term also helps pare that list down too. Things that are dealbreakers or seem stupid like "has complicated food orders" might sound unimportant, but if you find it annoying, it's annoying! I'll tell ya, in the future, I'll be asking about peoples allergies/food allergies in the beginning. Oy vay.
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