[Apia resurrected]

Sometimes I listen, sometimes I still do what I want.
It depend on how much I want it and how much he hates the idea. Or the other way around.

I love animal print on a jacket, Mr. Apia hates it. I still wear it. It’s too cool.
He doesn’t like any perfume on himself or others, I hardly ever wear it, also it gives me the opportunity to not spend money, and honestly no one really needs perfume.

I would prefer him to shave the hair under his arms, he doesn’t want to, so I got used to it.
When his head hair looks overgrown, it’s too much for me, because he starts to look like an owl. An unsexy owl.
So I learned to cut his hair and we have no more arguments about it.
Before I asked him 100 times to go and let it have cut, and it took 2-3 months.

So I wouldn’t say it’s all not the partner’s business. But choose your battles. Decide what is really important.