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Old 10-08-2020, 09:25 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Scorpion View Post
I don't know how it's ok to just surprise your mate with some change like this... I mean I know I would not want to get a tattoo that my wife hated but then I respect her opinion.

On the other hand if I or she already had a bunch of tattoos I wouldn't consider another such an issue that a discussion is necessary.

In no way am I saying we need permission from each other but as partners it seems really disrespectful not to at least ask for an opinion and respect the opinion enough to discuss. If she really wanted to shave her head and I would not like it but I also wouldn't stop her.
Same. I think I would like to know beforehand. This kind of surprise wouldn’t be great.
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