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Originally Posted by Apia resurrected
True.
Also true that it’s too early with the engagement on his side, there was no development.
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There is NO amount of self work, therapy & rehab a person like him could do in this limited amount of time that would prepare him to be a full-fledged non-shitty person in a committed relationship like this now.
About a year ago, an acquaintance's bf (which none in my friends group knew at all) messaged about a dozen of us on FB telling us all what a liar and whore the friend (his gf) was. It was truly bizarre and threatening enough that one person went to the cops about this guy's harassment. A few months later, in covid-time, this girl slipped that she was still with him - declaring "he got therapy and worked on his issues" all in the span of like 3 months? You can't therapize that kind of nonsense out of a person like you're going through an express checkout. It's the same shit as Hennessey - he's just holding back his true nature for now while he does his BS love-bomb narcissist moves.