[Apia resurrected]

I listen to the marathon and listened to this part again.
I realized that I dont like Iain.
Everything is about him and his addiction. He also has no incentive to ever stop. He is the identified problem child in their relationship.
He is in the center of attention with all his problems and know next to nothing about her.



What an unhealthy dynamic. If my friend said he loved cocaine more than me I wouldnt just take it. I know i would say, next time you have problems call cocaine i guess.

Not to punish him but to respect myself.
And of course Chemda is right, being addicted to help others makes you feel like the one who doesn't have problems.