[Apia resurrected]

Thats true and also i dont want to loose my anger.
Its a part of my inner voice.
When i feel it in my stomach and think about the situation I often find that its not ok.
That someone is being shady or racist or dishonest or sexist. I dont want to react in anger but its such a strong feeling that I can't ignore it.

I know by it that its time to set a boundary, end a relationship or demand something.
For example when I started this job it was on a temporary basis with the option of a steady contract.
( a steady contract in Germany is very hard to get fired from thats why its hard to get)
After a year I had enough and told my supervisor that Im working more than the others and that I would need a steady contract or otherwise I would look for another job. It worked and 3 months later I got it. He told he I got it because I demanded it and he knew I was serious.

The people who stayed after me only got 2 year contacts because the company policy changed. Without my anger I would just have waited.