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Originally Posted by Apia resurrected
Here is how it works with me and I don’t think this is uncommon?
In my daily life I do my normal stuff and mostly I don’t think about having sex with people I meet ever.
I only ever thought about it when there was some kind of connection, a flirty interaction, some looking at each other a bit longer and maybe having fun together. It’s very practical this way. I don’t need to be in love to have sex with someone but I need some kind of connection.
This person on the AMTA podcast described the same but saw themselves as asexual and this left me confused, because I don’t think I’m asexual at all.
If I wasn’t in a relationship with sex I would look for it and I think I would do so 1-2 months after not having sex.
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What you are describing is pretty much a normal post puberty female sex drive. Women will take it if available from a reliable partner or will desire it during ovulation with a building desire each ovulation period. Men's tends to trend from wanting sex just after refractory period to 4 days as they age.