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Old 08-08-2022, 08:58 PM   #3 (permalink)
CarolinaLiz
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Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: North Carolina
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As a single mom who has a good relationship with her ex, I think always doing all the extracurriculars with the ex is a lot. Not saying that you're wrong, just offering another perspective. My ex and I do the really important things together (preschool graduation...lol), but not the day-to-day swim classes/karate classes. If we did, I'd have very little free time. I need time to run errands and do chores, time with myself and time with my friends. If I had a boyfriend, I'd need time with him, too. Your ex can handle stuff on his nights. It may also be confusing for your kid if they see you together so often if they're holding out hope that you might get back together.

You need time for yourself and, if it's worth it, your new boyfriend, too.
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